Can I just expand a little on my Paypal gift problem. I was looking for some new wheel trims for my Mundaneo. They were listed on eBay but were collection only. He lives in Ipswich and me in Warwickshire so pick up wasn't going to be possible.
I contacted him asking if he'd be prepared to send them, obviously at my cost. He said he'd waIt until the auction ended and contact me if they didn't sell.
They didn't sell, we agreed a postage price and he 'sold' them to me at his reserve price.
I certainly didn't do it to get around any fees, I was just too trusting