I don't know about the diesel engine, but my TwinSpark 156 has 187,000 on the clock now.
My commute in it was about 150 miles a day, now it is only 44 which is nothing.
It seems happy at MOT time, cosmetically it still looks good, and it doesn't really let me down.
In fact things like wishbones that fail on the Fiat are stronger on the Alfa. I needlessly replaced mine.
Probably the main criticism is that it doesn't feel like a real Alfa. It is a bit quiet and refined. It has headroom. The pedals aren't offset. The blood curdling scream doesn't really progress through the soundproofing into the cabin. The handling and balance are very neutral.
There is a bit of rust on the bumper hangers, like any fiat/ Alfa.
I sometimes think about replacing it, but I know I'd just want another. It is unbelievably cheap to keep on the road.